So, something happened this week that has really questioned my path to
ordination… I won’t go into details
but anyone following me on twitter will know what it was!
I have spent the last 2 ½ years thinking about my vocation, going through
the discernment process and finally being selected and sponsored for ordination
training. Next September, all being well, I will start training to be a Priest.
This has not been an easy process, and one that I have blogged about at
length, but at the end of it I feel convinced of my calling and what kind of
journey God is putting me on. Part of that is, I feel sure, about reform and
making a difference. I have never been afraid of a ‘fight’ or standing up for
what I believe in and I felt from early on that would be significant in my
journey in ministry. The other part (but wholly related) is about doing things
a bit differently, being a pioneer and being involved in contemporary ways of
doing ministry.
Despite all this I am not taking the OPM route (Ordained Pioneer Ministry)
for various reasons which I won’t go into now. But, I will say, that I am not
one for labels, I don’t think they are helpful generally, they just pigeon-hole
people and this happens a lot in the church. Someone is labelled ‘Anglo-Catholic’
and we instantly think incense and Saints, we don’t see the heart of the person
who desires to be closer to Jesus. We hear ‘Evangelical’ and we think hands in
the air, anti-women, anti-gay… Neither of these are fair descriptions of the
people who are labelled in this way. I, for example, would be referred to as
evangelical, but I’m certainly not a conservative, I’m a woman heading for
ministry if nothing else…
Part of ‘discernment’ is about understanding the breadth of the Church of
England, knowing what all areas are about so that we can live and work together
under the same banner. Great, I totally
get this and think it is really important. I think it was John Wimber who said
we need to love the whole church from the incense swinging all the way to the
hands in the air… After all we all serve and love Jesus (I hope!) although we
might show it in different ways and have different ways of expressing our faith.
We might think that some of our counterparts practices are a bit odd or not
something that we choose to do, but we can respect them anyway. We can learn to
have an understanding of why others choose to worship in the way they do. Whilst
I attend an evangelical church and that is the kind of ministry I feel called
in to, I also choose to go the chapel at my sons school each week, which is
very traditional, includes incense and bell ringing each week (I do not say this
in a derogatory way and whilst I may not know what the bells are called I do accept
and understand it). I really like the services there. I was brought up in
traditional village churches and perhaps this reminds me of my childhood, I don’t
know, but I do appreciate the space, silence and comfort that this service
brings me.
This, I think, is the kind of thing we should expect from potential
ordinands. From whatever spectrum, that there should be an openness to all
disciplines of the Church of England. I can just as equally sense Gods presence in the Chapel at school as I do in
our sports hall at church. I would also hope that this is something that we
could expect from all our clergy from Vicars up to Bishops and ArchBishops.
Sadly in my experience this is not always the case.
I really love the Church of England. Sometimes I wonder why, I really do, it
frustrates the crap out of me, but I actually do. Perhaps because I attended
church as a child, perhaps because I was baptised and married in the CofE,
perhaps because that’s where I first experienced God. I don’t know, but I do
know that’s where God has put me and that he plans for me within it.
The thing is, although I knew part of my journey was about reform facing up
in battle and so on, I’m not sure how prepared for that I was and so early on
in my ministry life! Someone said to me today it would always be like that in
the CofE and a little bit of my heart sank. Funny thing is the other part was
up for it and already putting on the armour…!
The thing that happened this week had me in tears, and yet afterwards I felt
God telling me effectively to ‘man up’ (or woman up) and get on with it, he had
put me here for a reason and there would be bigger battles to fight than this
one… And that’s totally fine, armour at the ready, I know God is my shield
and my strength, but I do wonder if it should be this way… I mean I don’t
need to rant again about what I think about the future of the CofE, but really
shouldn’t we be encouraging people who might want to do things a bit
differently? Whatever we feel about the
church and its practices, we must all recognise that things aren’t actually
that great for the traditional church as it is, are they? Yes there are pockets
of greatness and wonderful clergy and I’m not having a dig at anyone, but can
we all agree that perhaps it’s time we thought about trying something else?
Look at the churches that are growing most, they are those that are contemporary
and forward thinking; or those that are really serving their communities and
reaching out in ways that are actually needed; or they are those that are
appealing to a particular area of society; as just a few examples.
I find it so frustrating that sometimes these things, these pockets of
greatness, are almost overlooked or not encouraged, not given support, because perhaps
they don’t adhere to every section of canon law, because the Vicar doesn’t wear
a dog collar at every second of the day, or perhaps because someone is allowed
to preach without being licensed by their Bishop.
Although I have deliberately not written about what has caused this post I
realise that it’s probably quite foolish to write publically about some of this
stuff before I am actually ordained. I’ve lost count of the number of people who
have said to me over the last 2 ½ years, ‘just jump through the hoops, once you’re
in you can do what you like’. But I have always found that quite hard as I am
someone who wears their heart on their sleeve and I don’t find jumping through
hoops all that easy (and anyway it doesn’t seem quite right for someone serving
God to effectively be dishonest) so this post holds back a bit, but hopefully
shares some of my frustration. It may not make much sense and I quite admit it’s
a bit of a rant but there you go. I haven’t written much recently, mainly because I’ve been so busy, but that
seems to happen, I go in phases when I write every day for a week or two and
then not for a month. That seems to suit me. I miss my blog when I don’t write
but then something comes along that makes me so desperate to write that I have
to pour it all out and I guess that’s what this is!!
So, my desire is to serve God and to serve the church, to see people meeting
with Jesus and even when they don’t personally, that they will recognise
something a bit different in my church or in me or those around me. And my
prayer is that I can do that in unity with those around me, with other clergy
and with my superiors. I hear so many stories of people doing more contemporary
ministry getting up the noses of those around them and those in more
traditional parishes nearby. This saddens me. Why can’t we all recognise that
we serve a broad church with a very wide cross-section of people. We say there
is a place for everyone in the Church of England and so let’s recognise the
need for that breadth and diversity…
4 Comments
Charlie Peer
November 11, 2012 at 8:01 pmHi Red, I'm not going to comment on something that you haven't written about, but I'd like to say that you have exactly the right attitude.
The advice "jump through the hoops & then do what you like once you're in" is feeble. We need you and your fellow ordinands to be people of integrity who can engage with, as you put it, the whole church, both critics and allies. I've seem people who kept their head down all the way through training, and in the end they don't really want to be part of the Church of England at all.
The future of the church is exactly where you think it should be. Ministers need to affirm and accept the diversity of the C of E, while at the same time having the courage and passion to stick to their convictions. Keep going, OK?
Jules
November 11, 2012 at 9:19 pmthanks Charlie, really appreciate it x
margaretkiaora
November 11, 2012 at 10:01 pmYou also have a back up team , people u know , and people who read your posts who are praying for you because they see that you have a heart after Gods. With priests like you , the C of E at least has a good chance of becoming the body of Christ that will indeed be able to 'worship God and enjoy Him for ever.'
Jules
November 12, 2012 at 1:47 pmthanks Margaret xx